How true this is!

Hail to Girlfriends!

Get Yourself Some Girlfriends...
Young and newly married, I relaxed under a pecan tree on a hot
Texas summer day, drinking iced tea and getting to know my new
sister-in-law, Estelle. Not much older than I, but already the mother
of three, Estelle seemed to me experienced and wise.

"Get yourself some girlfriends" she advised, clinking the ice
cubes in her glass. "You are going to need girlfriends. Go places
with them; do things with them."

What a funny piece of advice, I thought. Hadn't I just gotten
married? Hadn't I just joined the couple-world? I was a married
woman, for goodness sake, not a young girl who needed girlfriends.

But I listened to this new sister-in-law. I got myself some
girlfriends.

As the years tumbled by, one after another, gradually I came to
understand that Estelle knew what she was talking about. I remembered
that she had said the word "girlfriends" with emphasis.

As I went along, I discovered the subtle difference between friends
and girlfriends. You go to work with friends, go to dinner with friends,
go to church
with friends, belong to clubs with friends. You send friends greeting
cards. You need friends in
your life; all girlfriends were once only friends.

But a girlfriend is different. I offer this praise of girlfriends.

Here is what I know about girlfriends:
Girlfriends don't compete.
Girlfriends bring casseroles and scrub your bathroom when you are sick.

Girlfriends keep your children, and keep your secrets.
Girlfriends give advice when you ask for it.
Sometimes you take it, sometimes you don't.
Girlfriends don't always tell you that you're right, but they're always
honest.
Girlfriends still love you, even when they don't agree with your
choices.
Girlfriends might send you a birthday card, but they might not. It does
not matter in the least. Girlfriends laugh with you and you don't need
canned jokes to start the laughter.
Girlfriends don't talk about you behind your back.

Girlfriends pull you out of jams.
Girlfriends don't keep a calendar that lets them know who hosted the
other last.
Girlfriends will give a party for your son or daughter when they get
married or have a baby in
whichever order that comes!
And girlfriends are there for you, in an instant
and truly, when the hard times come.
Girlfriends listen when you lose a job or a husband.
Girlfriends listen when your children break your heart.
Girlfriends listen when your parents' minds and bodies fail.

My girlfriends bless my life. Once we were young, with no idea of
the incredible joys or the
incredible sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would
need each other. I want to tell younger women to take my
sister-in-law's advice. Get yourself some girlfriends. You are going
to need them