I have the weirdest personality. It's like I get obsessed with things. I spend hours sometimes finding people on the Internet. Actually I have done a pretty good job in finding folks.
I used the Internet to find: My sister, Paula, after 25 years, One second cousin through my grandfather and another second cousin through my grandmother. Several childhood friends, etc.
I have other folks I have not found, and those that I found that I didn't need to.
Lately, though, I have been spending tons of time in research. Very successful if you want to count the info I got. But I realized that a lot of things are best left alone.
I actually feel guilty now and I realize that any contact is not substitute for the type of cantact I am seeking.
If you understand that, you are better than me. I can't understand why I do the things I do myself most of the time. Can you?